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Bringing Home Baby

Bringing Home Baby

The whole family you have waited for this day long nine months, and that very soon a newborn pipsqueak be home! How to help your child more easily adapt to new conditions and make the very first days he was growing up healthy? Take care comfort and health of the newborn baby is better even before his discharge from the hospital. First you need to prepare a "living space" a little housewarming. Ask someone from the home for your arrival to the apartment wet cleaning, Children learn from carpets to remove books in closed cupboards. Plus, the Think about where the baby's crib will stand (it should be kept away from drafts and closer to daylight). Contrary to superstition, which does not advised prospective mothers to shop for your baby before birth, prepare a minimum set of things is better than before.

For the first time your child will need: 5-6 flannel and the same number of thin cotton or cotton diapers, diapers (at the rate of 5-6 per day), 3 light and 2 warm undershirts without a collar, 2-4 pair of sliders, 2-3 lung cap and a warm, 3-4 pairs of thin and warm socks. A little later, will need a pair of overalls for easy walks, but on Summer – T-shirts, shirts and shorts or a body with short sleeves. Well, if veshchichki will wait for the owner in full "combat readiness" (pre-wash and pat them). When my mother with the baby comes home, do not arrange in honor of this event noisy feast – and she and the child is now badly needed rest. And indeed the first time social circle a little better to be minimized because the new people around the baby – it is also a new infection, from which body crumbs until it is difficult to defend. For the same reason a newborn should not kiss, especially in the face – this prohibition applies not only to loving parents but even my mother. Pure-clean on the first day after Check crumb should not worry even swim (he already suffered a serious challenge – moving from the hospital), simply wash away his after each "big" toilet. But the very next day Introduce baby to water element and make these procedures a daily ritual.

The first days the baby is better to bathe in boiling water or wiping with a soft sponge soaked in warm water without soap. But if the baby's skin healthy, you can wash it, and under the shower adjusting the water to 34-37 C, the main thing – be careful during the procedure to not contaminate the umbilical wound. When healed navel (this is usually to 7-10-th day after birth), a pipsqueak able enough to splash in the children's bath. From time to time be required hygiene and nose, and ushkam small. Make of soft cotton turundochku, moisten it with oil and gently remove the crust from the nose or sulfur from the ear. But to get involved in such procedures and arrange them unnecessarily should not be – it can lead to irritation of the mucous membrane. Require careful handling and the eyes of the child, most often it is quite enough ordinary washing. However, if the eyes water or fester, without consult an ophthalmologist is necessary.

Parents

Parents

ARIES – loves children and is proud of them. Can win the heart of any child. Understand their children is their friend and adviser, Oveny mother often have strict guidelines, they love the children to obey them implicitly. Them need to control themselves and be more patient. The natural desire to be Aries around first.

They can not compete with their children, and to allow their children to learn from mistakes and choose their own way. Taurus – the most loveable character. Taurus-fathers, focusing on children, many of them require. Themselves are honest, sincere, reliable, try to bring the same qualities in children. They are patient, do not tolerate haste.

Taurus must Children grow out of fear of extreme materialists. Do not surround them luxury items, let the children things that contribute to the development of musical instruments, exercise equipment, etc., instead of costly clothing. GEMINI – often parents' burden on them too hard. Twins trust the children treat them as equals, but not too attentive to them. They are sometimes so surprising lack of respect from children. The twins are sometimes lacking firmness, and perseverance. CANCER – this is the perfect parents, patient, loving, interested in any children's problems. Crabs are especially fond of the fathers to daughters. Cancers tend not to give children many freedom, anxious and worried for them, they love children more than the spouses. LEO – often fond of children to oblivion, unaware of their shortcomings. Not tolerate disrespect from children. Their heart is always open for your child, and children usually appreciate the efforts of parents.

The Monastery

The Monastery

The fact that the hospital you will be denied by anyone, and just so no one area will not, especially if he suffers from alcoholism treatment against a person. Call the doctor at home is also useless. You need to go to your local policeman. Write a statement that he came and looked at an alcoholic, and the conditions in which you do with it live. With that, if it turns out that the alcoholic is not violent and not dangerous, then you fail. Therefore, we must prove that he does not give you a 'quiet life'. Further, the district must write a referral for involuntary treatment of man. It is possible that before you write will need to make an examination of alcohol in the blood …

In general, it should explain everything to you himself and tell. Remember that often need to insist, be stubborn, but otherwise can not or anything happen. If the patient has alcoholism and crazy, you have to call an ambulance at the time of seizure. For example, when a man rushes. And if the doctors thinks of refuse, take them with written confirmation of their failure. They have no right to do so.

Living with an alcoholic sheer punishment. Do not feel sorry for him when he comes out of this state, do not help him with his problems. Let yourself looking for a way out of problems created by him … Let wake up consciences. Not know, frankly, you can use modern medicine to cure a patient forever. After encoding, most alcoholics drink, as before, or even more … It's very important support for families and state of mind this man. And of course it will. When I was in school, I had a classmate who has many years ago, saw his mother very much. She sank to the bottom, threw children (taken acquaintances), did not work .. but it would change. At the very forces it was not, and would not be enough … it saved the woman. Orthodox prayers and their faith (this time the woman went to the monastery). So help a stranger, who somehow felt sorry for the woman alcoholic. Nor any encoding … a miracle?

Love In Large Proportions: Giperopeka

Love In Large Proportions: Giperopeka

The love of a child – it's very light feeling and its miraculous effect often helps to cope with all the difficulties encountered in the way of education. Love gives strength and endurance, helps to forgive and instills in the heart hope for the best. However, it happens and so that love is not only a source of joy and happiness, but also all sorts of grief, challenges and even conflicts. Love in the proportions in which common sense disappears, and is an excess of parental love to the child often becomes almost harmful than its weakness. This love is called giperopekoy. One of the most common forms of expression is an attempt to protect giperopeki Child of problems and worries of this life. It would seem a good intention, but it leads to the most unpleasant consequences. It happens that a child in a natural burst of adult role models is attempting to do along with them that – either at home, for example, wash dishes, set the table or bring a bag from the store.

If parents do not appreciate such "care" and the baby was removed from his "too heavy for him" work (which indeed they could have done together), then the child will learn in the future that the heavy lifting usually make mom and dad, and stop to offer assistance. Huge giperopekoy is injured when the child is trying to establish his "personal" life and makes the first attempts to display independence. For example, adults do not help to do your homework and do it for a child or not allowing him to make himself a sandwich just because it may cause injury. The thing is that too is a fine line between the fence of the child until it has a daunting and outright denial of its independence. Every parent should be able to feel its weight and balance of child matters, imparting to it a sense of responsibility and autonomy. Giperopeka leads to the fact that the child loses the opportunity to make their own decisions, overcome difficulties, and in difficult situations is helpless, hoping for help from adults. The most annoying thing that impacts giperopeki remain with a person for life and into adulthood, he will still be unable to without approval from Mom or Dad to overcome life's obstacles and make important decisions. Left without the support of those who so strongly took care of him as a child, a grown up child will be alone with their fears, in the confusion and disorientation. So think about the future child must be from the beginning. Love and is to supply your baby with all that will help him in his long and this hard way.

Healthy Solvents for Pregnancy

Healthy Solvents for Pregnancy

It concerns the means to kill insects, and products containing chlorine. Safer is the use of soap, soda, etc. Performing possible work in the garden, in contact with the ground, be sure to wear rubber gloves, and after that – wash your hands thoroughly. This is a good preventive toxoplasmosis. To prevent infection, and this other infections transmitted through food and contact with the ground, be sure to thoroughly wash vegetables and fruits before eating.

Thoroughly wash hands, kitchen surfaces iposudu after contact with raw meat, vegetables and fruit, seafood, poultry. Preparing food, enough give in to her cooking. If the house you have pets, you need to be careful Bole, caring for them: make sure to use the rubber gloves, wash your hands thoroughly, especially before eating. Better care for the cat if you allow another member of your family. Try seldom produce their darling into the street and did not give her raw or not processed meats. Absolutely necessary to avoid a desire to animal shelters, as it can be a source of various dangerous for pregnant women infections. It is very important for the mother is the question of proper rest. In the evening, before going to bed will be useful for a walk in the fresh air in the park.

At night you should sleep at least 8-9 hours, in well-ventilated room at a comfortable bed. If your course pregnancy is not accompanied by any complications, then sex is perfectly safe for you and for the unborn child and may continue throughout pregnancy except for the first and the last 8 weeks. Considering the changes in shape and increasing the load on your body, along with your partenerom, you may need to be more careful and cautious. In the presence of complicated pregnancy (threat interruption, a history of prematurity, placenta previa, etc.), of complications from cardiovascular sitsemy and other organs and systems, sexual relationships during pregnancy should have certain limitations and may even be generally contraindicated. Every pregnant woman, respectively relating to their health and well-being of future child should understand that the active or passive smoking, and drinking alcohol or drugs during pregnancy is especially harmful impact on child development, both before and after his birth. Smoking and alcohol consumption during pregnancy causes dysfunction of the placenta, the delay development of the fetus increases the risk of premature birth and stillbirth. Nicotine, alcohol and drugs pass through the placenta and disrupt the normal development of organs and systems of the fetus. Particularly sensitive to their toxic effects is the nervous system. Therefore, after the birth of these children are typical lag in the physical and mental development, congenital malformations and a syndrome of sudden death. Rejecting tobacco, alcohol and drugs, worrying about their health, eating and fully adhering to the rules of personal hygiene, you will make an important step in the birth of your healthy baby.

A Child’s Christening Gift

A Child’s Christening Gift

A lot of discussion in the world is, "Who are these children and with which they are planet" … These little angels are always in a special way for us adults affected. Child wants to give all the best to make him feel good. Small little hands, little eyes and huge blue agukanie not leave indifferent even the Snow Queen. We love the small and always, in every way possible to protect them. The Slavs, there are many signs, customs and traditions. Many of them is directly related to protection from disease, bad thoughts and actions.

One of the most interesting and mysterious customs – the baptism of a child. But first, everyone needs to understand that baptism – it's not a passing fad or traditions, is, above all, the spiritual birth of a new man, is his connection with God and the church. Need to feel the importance and solemnity of the moment: it is the sacrament is one and only time in my life baby! Let's talk about it. Above all, required for baptism godfather and mother. They may not be the bride and groom, children, followers of other faiths, mentally ill or frail people.

This is where the parents and make major baby gift, choosing a dignified processions, because these people continue to take care of the baby. They are his second, "spare the parents," another defense in his life. But this protection and care, it is not only a gift once a year, it's – and more important.

Marriage

Marriage

In the life of the long-awaited triumph of the baby every year there are birthday party. In the life of an adult human long-awaited holiday is marriage – once or several, does not matter, every time the couple dream that their happiness will be all my life and it will be very happy. Who would entrust the festival and how to arrange things so that the wedding and remember the bride and groom and a guest for a long time? First of all, love should find out what holiday they both flatly refuse to see. Negativity at the wedding should be saved first. If it turns out that something absolutely does not like to groom, the bride very much wants, you will look for compromises. Moreover, be sure in advance before the wedding to discuss the budget to the end of the wedding was not that the family boat can not go in swimming at the lack of cash for fuel. Well then need to find the original moves and concepts for the holiday, as usual 'white wedding' – very bored and beaten in the last years version, that having gone through it, the couple is at risk. In memory of friends and close this wedding may have been confused with many similar, which they saw in my life.

It is necessary to discuss everything with the experts. An experienced toastmaster can always offer a couple of interesting options. The simplest, Of course, change the color of the bride dress or select a unique costume for the groom. The main thing is not to limit themselves outside of the case. The whole wedding should be a fireworks display of originality, if you're trying to make wedding really memorable.

Choose a unique style of organizing the celebration, you will be taken in ancient Greece or Russian fairy tale. Decorating the space where it will be a celebration, is also important. If the whole wedding will be sustained in the same style – it will add luxury and always will be remembered better than ordinary kidnapping – bride or stripping of the witness. Contests need to think very well, always something interesting do, what to eat and drink stupidly, but the competition should be really good quality. Can best be role-playing games, unobtrusive and does not drive the guests in an awkward position. In general, if you do not want someone morally hurt, check what plans toastmaster take guests. It's unpleasant to get a husband or wife, but to lose a loved one. The main thing – well thought-out. If you want to marry for life, in advance of the wedding think about how to remember the wedding for many years – and only the good moments.